Ever since I had my son two and a half years ago there has been a growing pile of plastic on our balcony. The pile started off as a box of soft toys and things to chew on but soon grew into two overflowing boxes of plastic toys, things that make noise, blocks, balls, teddies and books. My husband and I don’t really buy a lot of toys; most of the things have come as presents from generous family members and friends.
As I watch the pile grow I am becoming more conscious not to buy my son extra toys that he doesn’t really need. Not because I want to deprive him but just that a lot of the toys he has he doesn’t really play with. Or he plays with them briefly and then discards them for something else.
Besides his prized Buzz Lightyear doll (which is made of plastic) his other favorite toys live in our kitchen drawers - a pair of cooking tongs, which he refers to as a crocodile, and chopsticks, which he swings around like a sword and then flings into our garden.
One way I have managed to keep our toy collection down is to provide him with things around the house. The cardboard roll inside an aluminum foil container makes a great pretend telescope. I also filled some washed out plastic milk bottles with a variety of dried pulses and pasta. These make great rattles for older babies to shake and also work well as tenpins to bowl over when baby grows a little older.
However, one of the best resources I’ve found is the local toy library. It’s part of the normal library - just an extra room full of great toys (mostly wooden) that focus on helping children up to six develop their skills. At my library I can borrow a toy for up to three weeks, which is probably just enough time until my son gets bored. Then we just take it back to the library and get another one. It’s an excellent way to provide young children with the experience of playing with lots of toys but not having to keep them. The kidspot.com.au website has a handy listing of toy libraries in Australia.